Dear Stefan, I wanted to give you a follow up as promised:
My mother and I are talking again. She contacted me a few days ago and profoundly apologized for everything she did to me in my childhood. She sent a long text detailing everythjng she did wrong in my upbringing. I was very surprised by that.
She said, that she is very sorry for hitting me. For ignoring me. It was not right of her to do all those things she did, and she sees that now.
We are at a start of getting to know each other again. But that would surely not be possible without your input.
So, I just want to thank you.
Merry Christmas to you and your family, Stefan (Frozen 2 suuuuuuucked).