Call In Shows

"I listen to you daily and have been for months now. Previously I had been an on-again, off-again frequent listener since I believe 2013 or so (started with YouTube then navigated to your website.) Your wisdom and insight is invaluable, and I have called in before now twice. I am now a subscriber and have donated before. Thank you so much.

"The reason I wish to call in this time is because my relationship with the mother of my 3 children has finally come to an end, I hope for good. That is the plan, anyway. The short version just for this synopsis is that we have been slowly drifting apart [...]

In this episode, I discuss Universally Preferable Behavior (UPB) with a caller looking to deepen their understanding of ethics. We define UPB as a systematic method for evaluating moral rules and explore its application through real-life scenarios, such as the ethics of assault. As we examine complex issues like fraud and societal responsibilities, we highlight how UPB addresses objections and reinforces the universality of truth. The conversation concludes with a focus on UPB's potential to reduce societal violence and its implications for parenting, encouraging listeners to reflect on the [...]

In this episode, we examine a caller's challenging journey through a tumultuous marriage marked by his wife's declining mental health and the complications of expanding their family. He reflects on red flags and chaotic incidents stemming from her struggles with emotional stability and substance use, leading to police involvement. The discussion highlights themes of accountability, self-awareness, and the importance of navigating relationships with clarity to protect their children from repeating past mistakes.

Topic : Dating crazy women.
Topic Detail: Hi Stef. Hope you’re well. Stef I keep dating crazy women and feeling intense pain for too long afterwards. I need your help please. Can we do a call in please. We’ve spoken once before.
Number of years as a listener: 10 years

My friend who listens to your show often recommended me to talk to you. I've seen videos and read your book. I am stuck on the treadmill of life. My wife got pregnant while we were 18 with my son. We got married and life has been hard ever since.
Early 30s, 5 ft 10, dark hair/eyes, fit lean build, young looking
TL;DR
I feel like a pathetic loser and single father. I know I'll be bitter forever but can't bring myself to finally leave her. None of my family/friends know other than 1 friend. Talked to lawyers. All of her friends/family/client's know. I see them and am ashamed. I have the lowest [...]

Topic : Examining how my life choices led to childless at 30
Topic Detail: I started listening to your show at age 20; I was already dead-set on my desire to get married and have children but my commitment to having kids was significantly amplified by listening to your show and becoming aware of the birth rate decline epidemic.
I was ideologically committed to the idea of having kids not only to carry on western values through my progeny but also as a part of my biological destiny; I considered my fertility to be a sacred gift that should not be wasted.
20 year old me would be absolutely [...]

Stefan speaks with a young caller, age 23, who feels lost and inadequate due to unemployment and family dynamics stemming from neglect. The caller reflects on his upbringing marked by tension and a mother’s illness during the 2008 crisis, leading to feelings of incompetence. Stefan reassures him that these experiences are common and encourages him to explore his interests in cryptocurrency as a path forward. He emphasizes the importance of reframing failure as a part of growth. By the end of the conversation, the caller shows a more optimistic outlook, recognizing that pursuing his passions [...]

Stefan speaks with a caller who recounts his painful experiences of verbal abuse from his father, influenced by alcohol. The conversation explores the father's trauma and addiction, revealing a pattern of projecting insecurities onto the caller. Stefan emphasizes the need for therapy, honest communication, and boundaries as the caller navigates the challenges of contemplating independence from a toxic home environment. The dialogue highlights the importance of self-care and resilience in fostering healthier relationships, ending on a hopeful note for the caller's journey toward personal [...]

Freedomain Live Call In 1 March 2025

In this episode, I examine a recent interaction between Zelensky, Vance, and Trump, focusing on the psychological dynamics and negotiation strategies involved. I question how a leader can prioritize ideology over national welfare, using an analogy of a desperate husband dismissing the doctor who can save his wife.

I discuss the importance of pragmatism in political leadership and critique American interventionism's role in exacerbating global conflicts. The episode wraps up with a conversation on personal relationships, exploring themes of unconditional [...]

"Hi Stef
"I am a struggling mom of 2. My oldest just turned 2 last weekend, and the youngest is now 4 months old. Ever since i gave birth, things have been chaotic. Having 2 kids so young means they both need me all day long (and also all night long, for the little one). I have help (a nanny), but that just shaves the peak of stress. She plays with the older one when i am preoccupied with the younger or cooking or laundry etc.
I am on all day, talking or playing with the older, taking care of the household or the baby, and don't get rest at night either.
My fiancé (we are getting married [...]